Sunday, 15 July 2012

India: Parvati Valley, Dharamshala, Delhi 4-16 Jul


Ido, Gayla and I left Manali for Kasol early in the morning in pouring monsoon rain. A friend of Ido was coming with us too, Lio who is French and an artist. We organised a tourist bus through an agency in Vishisht, Rs400 which was expensive for the four hour journey (only 76km, but in India that equals four hours) but it was supposed to be a more comfortable, fast and direct saving us around three buses, so okay. We got down to the bus station in New Manali and waded through the roads that were now rivers to find a daba for tea and chapatti before our bus. The minivan was quite comfortable, but stopped at a pashmina scarf shop where we all just stared at each other and didn’t get out, obviously they think tourists paying a bit more for a minivan instead of local bus would want to buy stuff but the minivan was full of Indian’s, we were the only tourists. It also stopped at a stupid place for a tea, ridiculously expensive with all kinds of added charges like tax and service added on in tiny print. It’s called Himalayan Village and it has a beautiful garden and luxury treehouses that you can stay in nestled in the forest. But a cup of black tea was Rs40 while everywhere else it’s around Rs6. One of the waiters told Gayla the price of the tea, then brought her something different that was more expensive without telling her. When she refused to pay the more expensive price the manager chased her outside and started yelling at her and would not let us leave until she paid the Rs10 difference, in front of all the other customers. Honestly a pathetic and aggressive way to behave, so avoid that horrible tourist trap at all costs. Himalayan Village Kasol.

We weaved and winded our way around the Parvati Valley through forest and rivers. I’d never heard of Parvati Valley so I don’t think it’s that well known to travellers, although it’s called little Israel because Israeli’s flock there. One person must have told their friend about it, and so on. I can’t believe it’s such a well kept secret. It’s a peaceful, beautiful, mountainous forest valley with friendly people and nice places to stay. Kasol is the main town in the valley, and from there you can take local buses to some of the surrounding villages. There are lots of signs in Hebrew and Israeli food in the restaurants, which is fine by me because it’s yum. The area has a big Tibetan / Nepali influence. We were still in Himachel Pradesh, North Western India where many Nepali’s work and live, and so there was Nepali dabas (local eateries) serving yummy momos and thukpa, lots of vegetarian and delicious food. 

Ido had been here before and was still showing Gayla and me around this part of the world. He went back to the same home he stayed in before, what he called his Indian Mom, Nebula, and she is a very sweet lady. She had really bad toothache when we arrived and had been chewing charas so she was a little dazed. She had two cosy wooden upstairs rooms that she let out, with an outside hot shower for only Rs100 a night (a little over £1) Downstairs she had a young Nepali family as tenants, and their little boy was cute but a tyrant, shy at first but after a while he grabbed onto my trousers with a nice gloopy ball of snot in his hand. We wandered around the town eating momos, drinking yum masala chai and looking at the Hebrew bookshops. I bought a really cool yak wool waistcoat. It was low season, the town was practically empty. Everyone had gone further north to Ledakh or Kashmir, where we had just come from. As I always say, low season is the only time to travel. Everything is cheaper, the locals have more time for you and aren’t so frantic and the weather is more interesting.





Kasol
The next morning we set off for Pulga after eating shakshouka, an Israeli breakfast of eggs cooked in tomato which I can now list as one of my favourite breakfasts, to one of the tiny villages in the surrounding mountains. The bus was Rs35 (£0.40) and took around two hours although it was probably only around 10km. The road winding through the valley was now so familiar to me. Gauged out like a ledge in the mountain side, it was more rocks and potholes than a road that had never even heard about tar. The retro rocking creaky bus flew over the jagged crevices and bounced us around like we were being rolled down a hill in a metal hamster ball with wheels and seats. The bus was nearly empty too with only a few locals, including a sweet little baby who sat up and was bounced around with a smile on his face throughout. There was a man with his young son, who every so often would discreetly stick his head out the window and vomit a little, and then go back to sitting obediently next to his father. Can you imagine that happening in the West? Apparently because these rural people hardly ever use transport they get car sick much easier than we do, although I was feeling a little woozy from the rocking bus. I have a video of us all bouncing around in a comical way.





Passing towns on the river in the valley
We got to the end of the line for the bus and had some chai and super fresh, melt in your mouth chapattis and dhal with the flies in the daba next to the bus stop and set off for the hour or so walk through the valley to Pulga. There are three small villages aligned on three hills in this part of the valley and there is no road to them, you need to climb through the valley to get there which makes them extra special. Unfortunately they are building a huge hydro electricity plant in the river that runs through the valley, and while it’s good that they’re using the natural resource of the powerful water for energy it will ultimately change the valley. But for now it’s still a beautiful secret spot in the middle of Himachel Pradesh, a true North Western Indian village in the valley surrounded by forests, rivers, and mountains.






School girls with red ribbons in their plaited hair walked along us on the path to their village, pointing out the way for us. Herds of small packhorses and their herdsmen also wound through the narrow path and as they passed we had to find a place to perch out the way, making sure we didn’t fall down the steep valley. (I did fall once like an idiot when a man carrying a hay bale walked pass, but luckily a bush caught me otherwise I’d be at the bottom of the ravine). 




It was a beautiful, sunny day so we arrived sweaty and happy to a place where Ido had stayed before, Devraj Guesthouse. It is a three story wooden house with eight rooms right at the edge of the village, surrounded by yellow wheat fields and looking out over two mountains converging into the valley between which the sun set, all surrounded by a fresh green pine forest and snow tipped mountains in the distance. There was a mouse quiet German guy in one room called Ben who had been there for a few weeks, and an even quieter, gentle, long haired Japanese hippy guy in the other room and then us. After a few days, two more Israeli girls arrived and painted a black and silver bird on the wall at the top of the house where the sun streamed in and there were hammocks to watch the sunset. Lio also set to work as soon as we got there to paint a cool design on another wall in the open upstairs sunset drenched spot.








We spent five days there, watching the sunsets, playing chess with Devraj, going into the forest (nicknamed the Fairy Forest) and soaking up the magic spiritually of the valley. If you carried on walking up, you would walk into the Himalayas and not see another village and probably not stop until you reached the top of a 5000m snow tipped peak. One day when running around the forest, some nomadic looking mountain people with baskets on their backs held up with a strap over their heads in the typical way they carry heavy packs, came and sat with us just to have a look as no communication with words was possible. Village dogs in packs would bound up the mountain to sniff at us and hang out jostling and playing until they ran off in a frenzy back down the mountainside. 





We ate fresh yummy food at Devraj’s restaurant nearly every day. Fresh ginger and lemon tea, masala chai, vegetable thali’s, oats with apple, Israeli salad, spicy dhal and rice and sometimes even chocolate cake or quiche.





One Friday we decided to try cook in the small kitchen shack outside Devraj’s guesthouse, and bought all the ingredients from the tiny local shopkeeper. We made tomato soup, crumbed cauliflower; salad and Lio went to the kitchen at Devraj’s restaurant and made two really delicious quiches in the wood oven. It cost loads more than just eating at the restaurant where a whole meal is around £1, but made for a really fun day of activity as none of us had cooked for weeks or months and we missed it.







One afternoon we walked to one of the other villages on the opposite hill in the sweaty heat and had ice cold sprite and apple juice from a local shopkeeper, with his tiny granddaughter watching on. This really was low season, there were nobody around this village except a few local men sitting in groups under trees talking together. On returning to our village we each dumped a bucket of cold water over us (our shower) and sat against the wall of the house in the rays of the setting sun to dry off.  It was five days of living in a secluded, mountainous, fresh forested North Indian village, and I couldn’t have been more in tune with myself, relaxed and happy. Ido, Gayla and Lio were all such great people to spend time with too, they really made the experience.

The three of us decided to go to Dharamshala after Parvati, also in Himachel Pradesh. I needed to stick to the area between Leh and Delhi as I only had a month in total, so Dharamshala was a perfect place to end my trip. It’s where the Tibetan parliament now is and has been for the past 60 years. How grateful we should be to India for housing the exiled Tibetan government.

From Kasol it’s an hour and a half bus local bus ride to Bhuntar (Rs25) where I got lots of uninhibited stares from the local men. As usual, there were way more men everywhere, on the buses, on the streets. Bhuntar isn’t anything special, just another busy dirty town. I bought two juicy yellow peaches like the ones you get in South Africa at a fruit stand and munched those. We had to wait a couple of hours eating Indian sweets and drinking sweet chai in Bhuntar, and then got onto an overnight tourist bus to Dharamshala for Rs500. 




The bus was comfortable and packed with tourists coming from Manali, but we had to sit right at the back which always equalled the most bumpy and stomach lurching ride (I had learnt this all the way back in Vietnam).This was my first night bus in India and I was a little terrified, I’d seen the roads in the day and they didn’t fill me with confidence. The driving was absolutely mental too, but somehow it all worked and flowed and I hadn’t seen even one accident, I knew you just had to relax and meditate your anxiety away and trust Shiva that it would all be fine! We stopped for some chai around midnight and had some fresh ginger and lemon, and then got back on the bus for the night. I somehow managed to doze off but then was lurched awake in a cold sweat. The driver was careening down the mountainside and taking the twists and turns so fast that I’ve never felt such sickness, and had to stick my head out the window only to see the road and the cliffs and the bus lurching left and right. He was driving like a maniac, and this was the only time in all my travels that I felt genuinely afraid. Ido and I were bouncing up and down in our seats so much that our heads practically were touching the ceiling. He was my hero though, and as soon as he saw how terrible I felt he marched straight up to the front booth where the driver was. He walked inside, and I couldn’t see them but the driver was so surprised he screeched to a halt to hear what Ido had to say. I heard him say loudly in surprise: ‘SLOWER??’ But when he started up again he did actually go slower which totally amazed me, all the way to Dharamshala. Thanks God! Ido told me a few days later that he thinks the driver was drunk, but he didn’t tell me at the time which I was so grateful for.

Dharamshala is another pretty, green mountainous town in Himachel Pradesh. One thing it’s popular for is classes for tourists, like jewellery making, cooking, yoga, meditation and Indian instrument making or playing. There are a couple of areas to stay but the main ones are at the top on a hill, Bhagsu and Dharamkot. Bhagsu is described as a commercialised warren of concrete which I have to agree with, but is also where most of the classes are and is central and easy to get around. Dharamkot is a little further up the mountainside than Bhagsu, there are no roads there so you have to make a little walk through the rocky pathways but it’s worth it, its green and quieter and just nicer. I ended up staying in Bhagsu though, up the hill in a guesthouse with a really nice balcony and view of the valley for Rs250. It was a big clean room with a really nice bathroom which I’m sure in peak season would be more like Rs400 a night. They had nice food and coffee in Bhagsu, and it was a shorter walk to Mcleod Ganj down the hill which is home to the Tibetan community and the main tourist hub, and also some good local dabas. The Tibetan influence gives Dharamshala a feel of multiculturalism and is a perfect example of India’s tolerance. Hindus and Buddhists live harmoniously side by side which gives the city a peaceful, colourful serenity. We watch school children play from a balcony, running as soon as the bell rings to their classes and a stern looking teacher marches to the class holding some kind of instrument, while a monk reads on a rooftop nearby.





The traffic is nuts, with cars, bikes, rickshaws, tourists all trying to squeeze down the same tiny roads, with Tibetan ladies selling their jewellery all along the sides. Every afternoon a downpour of fat heavy droplets would tumble out the sky drenching everyone, making the traffic thicker and the people wider with their umbrellas, which they use for the sun as well as the rain. Tourists are very common here, but even so a Sheikh man held up his baby to look at me as I pass. I wave at the baby and his little face contorted into an expression I couldn’t make out. 

We walk down the hill to try find the Tibetan museum, which is actually in Mcleod Ganj and not hard to find but somehow we missed it. We walked down and down into the valley, and came across a restaurant and book shop that looked like it could be in Primrose Hill, London. It couldn’t be more different to its surroundings, but it was a welcome place to step into. Called Cafe Illiterati, it was decorated by heavy stone floors and wooden furniture, walls of rare and interesting books along with classics, and books on every subject. A small but delicious menu, on the expensive side but the food was so good. And musical instruments dotted around the place with couches to read on and fresh mint lemonade to drink. We walked around, touching the books and looking at everything that was so different to where we were. The owner was from Belgium but spoke fluent Hindi, books was his passion and he spent his free time in markets searching for them. We decided to go back there for dinner, and continued the search for the Tibetan museum. When we did go back I bought two books, Kafka and a really cool book on Victorian trades, with Victorian illustrations. He said it took him ages to find that one, and was sad to see it go.





On continuing we realised we had gone too far, we found ourselves in the Tibetan Parliamentary houses. There was the Department of Information and International Relations, Library of Tibetan Works and Archives and many more. The people were in traditional Tibetan formal clothing, walking purposefully around during their working day. The older generation of Tibetans sat on the steps of the buildings, talking and the women looking after grandchildren.







 In Bhagsu, I really wanted to learn how to make Henna tattoos, learn Bollywood dancing and to cook some Indian food. It was down season, and so not many classes to choose from. Bollywood dancing, I was told, was in Mumbai where Westerners were coveted as extras in those big colourful Bollywood productions. I’d have to leave that to another time. I found Rita’s cooking school, where one morning she taught me how to make spicy dhal and samosas, simple delicious vegetarian food which I’m hooked on. Ingredients like chilli, garlic, potato, coriander seeds, lentils, onion. YUM. It cost Rs300 and you get to eat for lunch what you just made. Rita was a ‘no nonsense’ Hindu lady, a clever businesswomen and a busy mom, she sang mantras while she cooked.






After four days it was time to make my way back to Delhi to leave India. I bought an expensive overnight bus ticket, I wanted to make sure the horrible night bus experience wasn’t repeated. And this time I sat in the front. It cost Rs1100 from Dharamshala to Delhi, leaving at 6pm and was twelve hours. We were still up in the mountains and had to wind down to the low lying Delhi, so the roads were windy and twisty along green rocky valleys for the first part, and then flat and straight towards the end. The bus driver drove sanely, although stopped every hour for unknown reasons (to smoke, pee, chat to a friend?) and played music and Bollywood movies all night with the lights blaring. I’m not sure India has got the hang of the meaning ‘sleeper bus’. I got to Delhi at 5am where the bus dropped us off somewhere outside of town on a dark highway. There were rickshaws and taxi’s waiting, I felt more confident this time in Delhi after my four weeks in India. I negotiated the rickshaw’s price and we drove through the already hot, still dark early morning streets of Delhi. I wondered what the piles were on every street corner or just dotted around the highways, and realised they were sleeping bodies which looked like they were dead. Just sprawled out everywhere and anywhere, no covers, half naked, distorted into strange positions and not even lying on newspaper or cardboard, as if they had just collapsed where they were standing. My rickshaw couldn’t find the guesthouse I wanted for ages, and drove me round and round the Main Bazaar so I could watch the sun and people rise, showing up the dark piles to be either rubbish, cows or more sleeping bodies. Within minutes it felt like, everything was awake and humming with people, cars, heat, animals, stalls, fruit, rubbish, smells, smoke, pushing, sweating.

Eventually we found Hare Rama Guesthouse in the Main Bazaar down an alleyway off the main street. It’s Rs500 for an air-conditioned room with a bathroom. I’d recommend it too, its central and good value for Delhi and the staff are friendly. There is another guesthouse opposite with a restaurant and wifi. Delhi was hot, a heavy compressed heat that sticks and weighs you down, air-con is a must although usually I hate it. The only window in the room is tiny and painted black, when I open it a group of pigeons squawk and flurry and I look out at an air-con unit humming and a poky alleyway, and the dirty air pours in. I close the window, and go to sleep. My flight is the next morning so I have one full day and night in Delhi so I decide to go out to look at the Main Bazaar and Connaught Square. Its low season now and a Sunday, so while there are still some shops open in the Main Bazaar, Connaught Square is dead, most of the shops are boarded up anyway and look deserted. Every ten minutes a man approaches...’where are from, can I help you, let’s chat’ and won’t leave me alone until I get angry. These aren’t just friendly locals, I’ve been warned to avoid people wanting to ‘practice their English’ especially if they approach in a tourist area and aggressively won’t leave you alone. I get tired of this, I like to trust people and I do in towns and villages but not in the main tourist area in Delhi. After walking for a couple of hours the heat, dirt and attention became too much for me and I get a rickshaw back to the hotel. In the Main Bazaar, shopkeepers lazily call out to me as I pass, in low season they don’t have the urgency for you to visit their shop. Some even ignore me, which is a welcome break. I buy a scarf, an anklet and a really nice leather jacket from Sheikh’s Leather Shop after trying on about a hundred, it cost me £40 with a leather wallet. I spend the rest of the hot afternoon writing and sweltering in the guesthouse, and then took an evening stroll through the winding tiny alleyways of the Main Bazaar, no peeking necessary into the lives of the people there as they live so openly in the gutters and alleys. Washing, eating, sleeping, scratching, children doing homework, men watching their shop wares squashed into their tiny spaces. I get some stares, but they are used to tourists so not too many. I eat my last delicious spicy vegetable thali in a daba. Cheap, fresh, I’ve forgotten European hygiene requirements; these are the best places to eat. Forget restaurants for tourists with old food and empty seats.


Deserted Connaught Place

A full day and night in Delhi is enough for me, I’m glad to take the taxi to the airport the next morning. There was a festival on, I think Maha Shivaratri, and the roads are packed. There is a Mahasivarathri procession on the highway, men all dressed in orange carrying huge colourful pyramids which they will burn later. 



I make it to the airport with just enough time to check in and get to my gate (as usual, not leaving time to spare) and start reading about Nepal. This is my time usually to open my guidebook for the next country, waiting for the plane. It’s exciting, I don’t know much about the place, where I’m headed exactly or what I’m going to do there, only just before the plane leaves discovering and deciding for the first time. I look up the key phrases, hello, thank you. I can’t wait for Nepal and more Himalayas, mountains are always where I’m happiest, and I’ve only heard wonderful things about the place.

I was only in India for four weeks. I didn’t see the Taj Mahal, Varanasi, or even the Ganges River. I went straight up into the North Western Indian Himalayas and found exactly what I was hoping for when I planned to go to Tibet, although I probably wouldn’t have found it there in the China-choked dictatorship of the region. I saw epic, staggeringly vast desert mountain ranges and beautiful, secluded Buddhist mountain villages where I could drink fresh mountain water straight out the streams. I had more mountains than I could devour huge valleys of powerful rivers, dense green forests that went on forever to the top of snow tipped mountains. I met hippies, Buddhists, Sheikhs, Hindu’s, travellers, the poorest people without even a rag to cover their backs, middle class families and the rich shopping in designer shops in Delhi. I ate in restaurants, dabas, food stalls, corn on the cob covered in lime and salt from shrivelled old ladies roasting them over a fire on the floor on the street. I was on buses, cars, planes, staying in guesthouses, on mats on the floor, with families in the rooms they let out. I got stared at, but with a smile and confidence everyone is your friend and will help you with anything. I saw a religious broth, temples, festivals, rituals all performed in harmonious tolerance of each other. India is modern, ancient, colourful... religious, friendly, otherworldly... happy, heart wrenching, fragrant, forgiving and unforgiving.  I loved it and I will definitely be back there again. And all of this I wouldn’t have seen if I had originally gone to Tibet as planned so let’s hear it for Plan B.


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